我们在佛州旅行，到了一个人口大概只有十来万，很少东方人居住的小城镇。到超市买东西的时候，一个白人妇女走到我们面前对我们说，”我为作为一个白人感到羞耻，因为我看到我们种族的人，对你们亚洲人做出了非常卑鄙的种族仇恨行为。我为此感到羞耻，并且我也写信给我们报纸要向亚洲人道歉。”
作者林伟雄医生
我回答她说，”首先我谢谢你的好意，但是我要对你说，你没有必要为白人或者为美国人民道歉，更不应该为他们感到耻辱，因为在我们在美国生活了30多年里面，我们所遇到的都是慷慨和欢迎，特别是来自白人。因此你没有什么原因来为这个国家的人民和这个种族道歉，更不应该感到羞愧。“
她回答说，可是我在电视上看到的都是这些他们的种族仇恨的言行啊。
我说，在美国很多大城市里面，每天都发生很多的罪案，这些罪案受害者会是任何的种裔，并不仅仅是针对亚裔。你之所以会得出美国人，特别是白人，针对亚裔进行了种族性的仇视，是因为媒体刻意的渲染这样的报告。事实上在各个种族里面都存在有因各种原因的偏见甚至有些时候是敌视的少数人，但是美国人绝大多数对于外来文化的人都表现出超乎寻常的欢迎和慷慨，否则我们也不会在这里生根落叶。媒体这样刻意渲染种族之间的仇视，特别是把这仇视的来源指向白人，有他们特定的企图，他们要借渲染这些种族仇视推进某一个政治议程，而这个议程对于我们国家是非常不利的。我们应该认清他们背后的目的，而不轻易的对他们的导向性的报道而产生错误认识。
这位女士在交谈后来表示明白美国人有一个非常慷慨和欢迎的文化传统，也明白了媒体可能的渲染。
仔细想想，整件事情真的让我很困扰，不是因为对未能当场做出更完整或更精炼的回应感到遗憾，而是因为以下想法。
假设她的道歉是真诚的，而不是摆出美德信号的姿态，我认为这个表面上无辜的姿态中隐藏着以下危害：
第一，这位女士可能代表了相当一部分白人，他们相信了媒体关于“白人至上“的反亚裔仇恨犯罪的说法，这表明左翼媒体对许多美国人的思想和信念有多大的控制力。
第二，我们看到新闻报道说有亚裔收到仇恨信息或被人用“滚回中国去“之类的话大骂。有些事情可能确实发生了，这些行为当然令人厌恶，但它们与出于任何动机的暴力犯罪并没有决定性的联系。媒体对许多人进行了洗脑，使他们把它们等同于或相信有因果关系。相反，我从来没有看到媒体报道过像今天我遇到的这种反向或自我仇恨。
第三，反亚裔仇恨的热潮只是新闻媒体的焦点，不超过1-2周，这就足以迫使一些良心特别敏感的白种人向完全陌生的人道歉，只因为我们看起来像亚洲人（我们戴着口罩，所以她一开始甚至不完全确定）！如果这样，在媒体无休止的轰炸之后，同样的人不就更加觉得觉得有必要向BLM和赔偿项目下跪低头？
而更糟糕的是，她可能只是在发出美德信号。这将意味着我们的社会已经到了这样的地步：无论人们是否有共鸣，都不得不跟着精英们的调子跳舞。这意味着《1984》已经到来。
加拉太书2:20我已经与基督同钉十字架，现在活着的不再是我，乃是基督在我里面活着。并且我如今在肉身活着，是因信神的儿子而活，他是爱我，为我舍己。
基督徒承认自己是罪人，愿意悔改接受耶稣基督的救恩，跟随耶稣效法耶稣的舍己。而白左文化则是这种教导的劣质冒牌货。白左否定自己的族裔、诋毁自己成长的美国、鄙视孕育现代文明的西方文明、更是仇恨奠定美国立国根基的基督教。
他们是一群极度自恋、懦弱、虚伪的人，站在自己筑起的道德高地上，既不忏悔自己的罪孽、也不付出任何代价、更不做任何造福国家和他人的事情。白左是一股摧毁传统美国和西方文明的内部力量。在丧失对真神的信仰以后，美国的白左就是一具没有灵魂、没有真爱、没有盼望的文明丧尸，在尝试摧毁文明世界的过程中他们已经把自己彻底毁掉了。
英文：
The white guilt that I encountered first hand today.
We were traveling in Florida and went to a small town with a population of maybe100,000 or so, with probably rather few from Asian descent. While we were at the supermarket, a middle-aged white woman came up to us and said,“I am ashamed to be a white person because I see people of my race doing very vile acts of racial hatred against you Asians. I am ashamed of that and I also believe in apologizing to the editor of our newspaper, to the Asians.”
I replied to her,“First of all, I thank you for your kindness, but I want to say to you that you have no reason to apologize for white people or for the American people, let alone feel ashamed of them, because in the30+ years we have lived in America, all we have encountered is generosity and welcome, especially from white people. So you have no reason to apologize for the people of this country and this race, much less feel ashamed.“
She replied,“But all I see on TV are these words and actions of their racial hatred.
I said, crimes happen every day in major cities, and the victims of these crimes are of any race. The reason you have the perception that Americans, especially whites, are racially motivated to hate Asians is because the media deliberately exaggerates such reports. The fact is that there are prejudiced and in some cases hostile minorities within all ethnic groups for various reasons, but the vast majority of Americans have shown extraordinary welcome and generosity to people of foreign cultures, otherwise we wouldn’t have taken root here. The media has a specific agenda to promote racial animosity, especially when the blame of that animosity can be placed on whites.They want to use it to advance a political agenda that is very detrimental to our country. We should recognize their agenda and not be misinformed.
Later in the conversation, the woman said she understood that Americans have a very generous and welcoming cultural tradition, and also understood how the media might play it up.
On reflection, whole thing really bothered me, not because of regret for failing to deliver on the spot a more complete or polished response, but rather in the following thoughts:
Assuming her apology was sincere without posturing of virtue signaling, I see the following harms hidden in this apparently innocent gesture.
1st,This lady probably represented a substantial portion of white people who have bought in the media’s narrative about anti-Asian hate crimes committed by“white supremacy”, showing how strong a grip the left wing media has on the thoughts and believes of many Americans.
2nd,We see news report of people receiving hate messages or being yelled at with words like“Go back to China” or such. Some may indeed happen, and those behaviors are certainly disgusting, but they are not conclusively associated with the violent crimes committed with whatever motivations. Media have brainwashed many into equating them or believing a cause and effect relationship. I have never see media reporting on such reverse or self hatred.
3rd,The anti-Asian hate craze was only the focus of news media for no more than1-2 weeks, and that was enough to compel some Caucasians with especially sensitive conscience to apologize to total strangers, just because we looked Asian(we were wearing masks, so she wasn’t even completely sure at first)! How much more the same people felt the need to bow down to the BLM and the reparation project after endless bombardment!
And the worse would have been, she could have been just virtue signaling. That would mean our society has gotten to the point where people feels compelled to dance to the tune of the elites, whether they resonate or not. That would mean1984 has already arrived.
